You have not empowered a person by telling them "you are empowered." This is a classic mistake in communication. When one does this, they misinterpret their message, "I'm empowering you..." with the action that a verb such as empowerment requires to happen. This person is taking a short cut, by giving the platitude of empowerment in place of any action that would be view by the other as empowering. "When told that they are empowered to do something; this message is actually interrupted to dis-empower the persons agency." How does this misinterpretation occur? Why do we humans mess up this simple act of communication? Let's look at an example: For a few months I had been working with a new team of software developers at a large organization. Like many organizations they had already done the agile/scrum thing and it didn't work for them. Recently the leadership had built a satellite office and started from a very small pool of tenur...